Matthew had his 4 year old well-child visit at the end of July, but in keeping with the theme of never having time to blog, I completely forgot to record his stats here.
Height- 3'31/2" (28th %)
Weight- 34 lb 1 oz (30th%)
Matthew is doing so well. He continues to have problems with gagging/vomiting and lots of eating issues (also related to gagging/vomiting). He got a referral for an Upper GI, which was done that same week. All looked normal. They did not observe any reflux, but he also was unable to drink very much of the drink due to gagging and then refusing.
Matthew was also referred to a special feeding therapy program. He is growing just fine, so his weight is not a concern, but we are all concerned at the lack of variety in his diet. It's picky eating to the extreme, but accompanied with it, is a lot of gagging and throwing up when new foods are introduced. It makes meal time frustrating, to say the least. And while, sure, a kid can survive off of bread, cheese, and bananas (lots of other foods too), it would be nice if we could get him to the point of being good with more fruits, vegetables (he refuses all), meats (he refuses all except the occasional chicken nugget, on a good day), pastas, potatoes, and well, normal foods. His evaluation went well and we are hopeful this program is just what Matthew needs to get him to a healthier place as far as diet. He has some oral aversions/hypersensitive gag reflex and (it's thought) some residual issues from his reflux he had. It is theorized that the bad reflux caused so much pain/gagging, he just found foods he was comfortable with ("safe foods") and stuck with them. He may have been afraid at some point to try others, and then it turned into a behavioral cycle.
I love this boy. Oh do I ever.
Matthew's new favorite past time is building with legos. He got a few sets for his birthday and I cannot even begin to express how impressive he is with them. He uses mostly the sets for ages 5-12. If it's a small kit (all he's gotten so far) he can follow the directions step by step to build whatever it is he's supposed to build, with zero-minimal help from someone. Then he'll take it apart, try again. Then he'll just build whatever he feels like building. It is a lot of fun to watch and as daddy says, "I'm just glad he's finally into something that I like playing with." Yes, daddy and matthew are having a fine time building together these days.
One of his little creations.
Matthew had fun going to the summer program at his new preschool. It was nice for him to have something to do outside of the house. I'm really looking forward to seeing how he grows and changes in this next year!
We love you, Matthew!!
























